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Out of Nowhere

Published on June 4, 2025 in Share Your Story

Guest Author: Felisa M. in Texas

My husband of 29 years passed away 26 months after diagnosis of a glioblastoma. He was a mostly healthy 49-year-old man and had served 20 years in the Army. We were doing what we loved, going on a drive and talking about life when he began to drift off the road.

There were a lot of assumptions made about his early symptoms. Some of the assumptions were that my car needed an alignment, he needed a stronger prescription, he needed some physical therapy on his left wrist, or he just needed rest. His early symptoms were treated as vertigo, but a brain scan revealed a greater enemy. It was a large tumor near the thalamus — inoperable.

Initially, it was recommended we call the family and let him go peacefully, but love couldn’t let go. We fought and saw my husband stand again, preach again, witness a child graduating from college, and wade through the ocean. We never got him all the way back, but we were graced with time. Sixteen months in, a second tumor formed under the original location, which had responded amazingly to the standard of care. Ironically, after a second round of radiation, his memory strengthened as his body weakened. His thoughts were clear. I got more time with him mentally.

He passed in June 2023. Unfortunately, I joined the ranks of too many military wives whose spouses survived multiple combat tours of duty but came home to develop a form of cancer out of nowhere. Who really knows the depths of how burn pit exposure affected our service members? All I know is my hero gave his all. He served valiantly in service and at home, and he will never be forgotten.

Glioblastoma Awareness Day

On the seventh annual Glioblastoma Awareness Day, July 16, 2025, we come together to amplify the voices, experiences, and urgent needs of everyone living with glioblastoma (GBM), one of the most common, complex, treatment-resistant, and deadliest types of cancer. National Brain Tumor Society spearheaded this annual event in 2019 to support survivors and their loved ones, to remember those who are no longer with us, and to honor luminaries working toward better treatments, better quality of life, and a cure. 

For everyone with a glioblastoma diagnosis, it’s time for a better chance. 

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